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In 2021, in the midst of COVID, I participated in a kindness and gratitude challenge as part of the wellness program at my office. The assignment was to write down one or more things that I am grateful for, for each letter of the alphabet. I think that I am naturally a kind person, and pretty self-aware and reflective, but we can all use concrete reminders of what we’re grateful for now and again.
And now in 2025, I am grateful that 2021 Katy created this list, because given the heartbreakingly terrible cruelty-is-the-point changes and dismantling of our democracy (not to mention the Stupid Coup’s tariffs that went into effect today, instantly tanking the markets, skyrocketing prices and likely triggering a global recession), these are the things that truly make my life meaningful. The future seems pretty bleak right now, but I can remind myself to do small things where I can to change the shittiness, and in the meantime, at least there is:
A
autumn
apples
art
air conditioning
accents
B
bathrobes
berries
books
bed
C
cats
caramel
cheese
campfires
coffee
clouds
canyons
conifers
choices
D
Doc
democracy (I mean, sort of… for now… it’s pretty shaky)
E
empathy
electric cars (except Teslas. Fuck Tesla.)
F
friendships
financial advisors
fountain pens
fog
G
giraffes
grilled cheese sandwiches
green
H
hiking
hot water
hugs
home
I
ice cream
instant pot
imagination
J
Jamieson
jeans
jellyfish
K
kindness
kittens
L
ladyfriends
lemons
Linzer cookies
letters
M
moon
maps
mindfulness
music
memories
N
notebooks
nature
nighttime
O
oxytocin
owls
oil painting
P
poetry
piñon
Plainsong
pencils
pizza
PJs
patio
paycheck
Q
quitting when i need to
quality over quantity
R
red wine
rain
S
socialism
stars
salads
sparkly things
socks
snow
salmon
sunsets
T
thunderstorms
trains
tortillas
tacos
U
uniqueness
V
vaccines
vacations
vinegar
W
women
wool
winter
X
x-rays… (there aren’t many x words)
Y
yoga
you (yes, you that is reading this, personally!)
Z
zest (from citrus)
zest (the personality trait)